I just had a thought. The last few months H has been saying we got married because we had our d. He seems to overlook that we dated 10 years before this, and lived together 2 years after her birth before we got married...no one rushed into anything. If this is his reasoning, how can he say that an affair is a good way to start a relationship??
Me-36 H-37 D11 S8 S6 M9 T19 ILYNILWY 11/10 discover EA 02/11 discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11 H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11 Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12