I am so sorry GAG.

Personally, I do not think that you need persmission to go to MIL's funeral...she was your friend and she would want you there!

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing