Those are fine, but look up 'The Last Resort Technique' on this site. You are not really there, but there are aspects you need to follow, especially when it comes to intimacy.
You need to back off, and let her initiate at this point. If you initiate and she puts you off it reminds her of her current mindset and even 'sets' it a little more firmly in her mind.
I'm glad you realize you have some changes to make...just do them. Just be more attractive to her. You can do this.
