Take The Long Way Home...

[ninelives]

FOBD

As always we have you back here and want only whats best for you.

I have said this before, NOBODY knows how this is going to play out. Although they are making bad choices brought on by who knows what, these choices may be everlasting. What I mean by that, they may :

A) Continue with these choices as they see them as painful but necessary for them because they were SOOO unhappy

B) See them as a mistake , but cant fix them. Are ashamed to come back and think that if things were tough before, they will be unbearable because of their guilt or shame

C) Want to come back and despite your best efforts and hope that you will forgive, YOU really cant forget the pain, hurt and humilation she caused.

Any one of these scenarios could be a reality in which case, it is difficult if not impossible to build a relationship again despite our best intentions.

I dont know what to say FOBD, as always, ONLY time will tell how this will end.

One thing I can almost guarantee is that when the WAS gets older and starts to reflect on their life, I believe that is when the regret will hit them like a 2x4. But at that stage, what does it really matter.

Hang in there buddy.

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