Yes. STOP INTERACTING WITH HIM.

I don't know how many times you ask for advice, we give you the same advice of not answering to him so quickly, yet you don't follow.

He is checking to see if you are still in his control. Just the fact that you responded "to put him out of his terror" is the wrong thing to do.

Listen very carefully.

POST THAT YOU WENT OUT FOR A LUNCH OR SOMETHING. WHEN HE CALLS YOU STOP RESPONDING RIGHT AWAY. WAIT UNTIL THE THIRD CALL, THEN JUST SAY YOU WERE BUSY. DO NOT GIVE ANY DETAILS. IN THE MIDDLE OF THE CONVERSATION, SAY YOU HAVE TO GO AND TELL HIM GOODBYE. NO EXPLANATIONS.

You may think you have him under your control. But you do not. He's taking your temperature to see if you're still his until he finds someone else.

You have to have him wanting you so badly that he will do anything you wish, including going to counselling.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER