He has acted pretty selfish these past months and I have been busy trying to work on myself and our marriage. He's been blaming me for our problems and never even said he was sorry for things he has done/said.
All hallmarks of the typical MLCer. It's all about them. And everybody, but them is to blame for their miserable life.
Continue to work on your self and let H flap in the wind for a while.
You would be further ahead by repeatedly banging your head against the wall than trying to rationalize anything to a MLCer.
