Exchange it for what you want. If you keep it for "him," you are keeping it to make someone else happy. You won't like it and won't really use it anyway, so you'll never get the benefit for DBing with H. So, just thank him profusely for it, be appreciative, and be honest. You'll be fine.
"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending." - Maria Robinson
M: 45 WAW: 36 T: 17 M: 14 Kids: D9 ILYBNILWY: 6/2010 W left: 2/2011 W back: 2/2012
