Exactly Grrr, and no one really knows when it is time to give up.
The balance between being disrespected and trying to save something you trully believe in is something I struggle with everyday. Almost every moment.

Unfortunately, only time will solve this puzzle. What you do in the meantime is key.

People on this board will say Dont pressure or persue. This will send them running but again, sometimes they need a gentle reminder. But it cant be from you, if that makes any sense.

If they love you and want to save it , they will look to see what you are doing in your life and weigh to see if that is what they want I think.

No easy answers but this is not an easy Problem.

Best of luck.

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