Last night, we took the kids out to dinner, and to the mall to do some shopping after work. I thought we had a great night. We went home, put the kids to bed, took the dog out, etc. Normal standard night. I made the mistake as she was bending over reading facebook (ritual for her), and decided to just run my fingers across her back for a second. She said to stop. I got a little upset, but not much. She said she didn't want me to get the wrong impression, so she told me to stop.
Just seems like she is stone cold keeping me away from her. I hate not knowing what is going through her head, and not knowing how she is feeling. We don't have our next MC appts for over a week, and these next two are our individuals, followed by the week after of couples again. I just don't know how to act during the time in between.
I have not read either book. I did just buy two books before I found out about this site, and I am about to start reading them. They are called "winning your wife back, before it's too late" by Dr. Gary Smalley and "reconnecting: a self-coaching solution to revive your love life" Joseph Luciani. Hope these books principles are the same. I am just lost right now.
Me- 33 W - 27 M - 4 T - 5 SD- 8.5 S- 4 (deceased) D- 2.5
