Well its beginning to look like slow steady positives all round! At the risk of pointing out the obvious it was not listening to our H's that got us all in this mess in the first place.. the only thing they dont teach you in marriage school is how to listen, what to listen too, and when to action on it.. I know some people go to marriage classes but they dont cover all of this..
Cant emphasise enough that slow is the way to go.. I know certain other forums jest we are all waiting too long, but when people used to ask me why I hadnt dumped H I used to say I was playing the long game. Mind some peoples idea of long is different to others, but they dont know each individual case and in the cases where spouses are really being taken the tiddle out off they probably right! Hang in there girls I really believe you are all going to start reaping some benefits soon!
I know mine was a reasonable short "long game" compared to yours but two years of my life certainly went up in smoke..
But the good news! H and I had a weekend away and Im not sure who he is anymore lol! Hes gone all romantic on me, car doors opened, little sneaky kisses, more ILY's than I can shake a stick at.. Dinner last night I laughed and said we must look like a couple of teenagers making out not a couple who had been married for twenty five years and been together over thirty.. He is enjoying his hobbies but making sure he keeps me happy with quality time first or at least plans some so I have something to look forward too instead of being resentful. So all is well in Rabbit world and I really am keeping everything crossed that you ladies will be doing the same soon x
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
