IW - I can relate. My W and have been splitting custody of our six month old S, so most of our interaction is around our S or the actual swapping of our S. I continue to be as upbeat and confident as possible, but I do wonder if it is too much. She has mentioned to me in the past that I didn't have to be so stoic in the face of this really difficult situation. Has she ever said anything about your general attitude around her?

How often do you take care of D2? I have been having a really difficult time recently with the ideas my W has been having concerning custody. It eats me up inside that there is a possibility that she will go for full custody soon by "putting the needs of our S in front of our own". Ugh.

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated