My W just suddenly realized that her 2 years of unemployment checks were almost up and she would need to get a part time job in order to finish school. I saw on the internet history that she has been surfing the web for education loan information and grants. She has previously stated that she wants to finish school on her own and doesn't anyone else to have to support her. I think part of this is her guilt in taking any financial assistance from me since she has already written-off the M in her mind and probably feels bad about past financial damage she has caused to me. I would like to tell her that I can help support her through school since we are a team, but I think if she accepts my help she will be obligated to me which increases her sense of feeling trapped in the M.
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
