Ah, #11 has always been my favourite. Mattress-clinging could be the litmus test for MLC....
I agree, AJM, about feeling compassion for the guilt when it comes (and about feeling compassion for how agonizing the entire MLC must have felt to them). Additionally, I found that my H needed to feel the guilt in order to learn to forgive and feel compassion towards HIMSELF. It was a part of learning to truly love himself. Neither of us would be as happy without the lessons we learned through MLC.
