Having another difficult day today that is probably fallout from therapy last night.
Maybe W was just having a bad week and wanted to pick a fight, but I found it really difficult to DB while she was coming out punching. If these topics were not as important, I would be more willing to listen, validate, and agree to her requests without conflict.
The trouble was that the items she came out swinging with had to due with co-parenting. The biggest piece of it all came when discussing her desire to meet a parenting coordinator. How do I set that boundary? My W and I agreed to 50/50 custody the night that the A was revealed. She now feels as if it is not working. I feel she is wanting to use a third party to warrant her desires for taking full physical custody of our S. I am not okay with this. How do I possibly stick with DB tactics and avoid this conflict when it is so precedent setting?
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
