Country You've read my posts and know how similar I think our stories are. I had a talk like you did today at the beginning of february. My W was came over and wanted to have a R talk. It went mostly the way yours did, she asked about a joint filing, I said I wasn't interested bc it wasn't what I wanted. She said she would file by the end of the month on her own then. I still have yet to see this happen, thank god. The truth is she is just as confused as I am. She was trying to call my bluff, but I stood my ground and you should too. Don't help something along that you don't want. WAW have a tendency to bubble over like boiling water and then simmer back down. You need to remain steady. You know she is noticing your changes, hell she admitted it. She gave you a look at her hand. No more kissing. I did that myself a couple of times, BIG no-no!! Just makes us come off as weak. So regroup and keep on rolling.
