Is WAW coming around....help?

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I however think that she is afraid that if she dumps OM and I screw up he is already gone..

So you're telling me that your W is still seeing OM?
I agree with yourIC, I would show extreme caution especially if she is still seing OM.

Also, this is your perception of her feelings. Unless she told you this then you can't be sure.

Keep your living your changes. Your W said said she notices them. Her fear is that if she comes back things will be great for a bit but then will revert back to the old M.
This is a common fear by the WAW.

I would say continue the course your on, don;t chase her. She will come to you when she's ready to do the work.
Also, as a boundary for yourself, she must break all contact off with OM before you would even consider working on the M.