Sanderikinator! You're like the Terminator! You just keep coming back! What an inspiration to us all. I logged on while at work thinking that your post could be bad news given H's avoidance of you since his vacay. What a delightful surprise! So happy for you......and I have to tell you that it gave me an extra spring in my step today.
I agree that finding the right MC is tough. Here is a resource that I think may be very helpful for you. Check out these websites:
I see at least one M-friendly therapist listed for your state, but don't know how close you might be. Check to see if the person you're considering has published anything and read it to get a sense for their perspective.
Also try looking on the Smart Marriages website. That is a very pro-M website.
