Why does this have to be such a long process of suffering? I would rather have had H just say he's done and it's final than live in this limbo. He is no communicating with me at all, even though 2 weeks ago he said he wanted to talk to me about how we got here after he met with his therapist one more time. He's met with her twice since then and hasn't mentioned talking to me at all. I also know his therapist is urging him to have us counsel together, but he hasn't mentioned that to me either. I'm debating suggesting a "separation agreement" counseling session to iron out the terms of our separtation. Should I do that? I quit wearing my wedding rings, but he still wears his, at least when he comes to the house to watch the girls. But at this point we are completely emotionally D.
Me- 35 H- 36 M- 7 T- 9 D3, D5 Bomb 1/21/11 EA/PA began 12/10? Discovered A 3/2/11 S- 3/3/11 OW gone- 4/27/11 H says he wants to reconcile, but lacking action
