Sanderika well wow what a turn up for the books! I am so so pleased for you hun that it fabulous news, that judge was one in a million and posed exactly the right question at the right time, also your H needs full on validation for finally standing up and admitting he doesnt know a rock from a hard place especially infront of the judge.
Well tomorrow will be another day, and the main task is to find a good C, your totally right about getting one that wont have their view coloured by H's behaviour as reported via you.. I wish you luck finding a good one. Do the DB councellors have a list of recommended ones anywhere, or are they DB councellors over the country, I dont need to tell you how right it has to be, ours was rubbish and gave H carte blanche to leg it rather than work on our marriage!
Well squillions of hugs to you, its only the fact my laptop is on my lap Im not dancing round the lounge in celebrations x
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