New and saying hello

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Yup, it's me again.
I just had lunch with H (he asked) and it was pretty nice.
When we are together, we are touchy feely and act like we're a regular married couple going out to lunch.
I am just so confused.
He says he loves me, he's just so scared. He is very scared that things will go back to how they were.
I listened and validated his feelings and said "I understand why you would feel that way." Because I do.
I just wish he would see the changes in me. I know it takes time, I know it takes patience and I do love him enough to get through this with him.
It's just very hard.