It's Time To Rock; Part II

[ninelives]

Sorry to hear the outcome Country. I KNOW EXACTLY how it feels when they say hint that maybe things are harder than they thought so you think, Maybe they are reaching out and thinking that they made a mistake.

Then You start running at the mouth and saying things you probably shouldnt say. Having just gone through something very similar, except my wife went further and bit hard when I mentioned recon.

I FULLY believe now that we cant bring up Recon at all. They know what we want. Its up to them to bring it up and then its up to US to decide if they are sincere.

Last July my wife brought up recon. totally and begged to come back, but when she did, She was not committed at all and was having an affair.

IM not chastising you Country but you did a lot of persuing at this meeting and I know how that can happen. But you have to expect a total pull back from her for some time now.

Everytime HOpe gets squashed, you will feel like that; deflaled etc... and that is natural because we want it so bad.

One of my collegues at work phrased it well.

YOu MUST let her go to make her mistakes and see where her path takes her. IF she comes back, its up to you to say, Yea or Nay but she will then have to hope that she will be lucky to have you back.

Like I said Country,

I FEEL YOUR PAIN

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