Thanks 9...I hope her and I just get a chance to sit and talk about nothing for a while. There are so many 180's I'm doing, she can't miss some of them. I'm telling you, I did NOTHING in our M. Now, my finances are straight (actually have a savings), I have organized my filing cabinet, the house is spotless, I am losing a lot of weight (6 more pounds from yesterday). The only thing I am not getting practice/show her is my new skills when it comes to arguing (or my lack of arguing period now). At least she can see my listening skills.
I just have to keep reminding my self that this is a marathon and not a sprint. The D is going to happen and so will her relationship with OM. When that ends, I hope she can still see me. Maybe 6-12 months is what I'm thinking.
