Yes you do. You CANNOT let her see weakness because they DO NOT feel sorry for us. No matter what they say, I believe that they thing we deserve what we are going through because in their heads they believe we put them through hell for a number of years.

This may or may not be true and it usually isnt true. We all made mistakes, NO DOUBT, but that doesnt justify giving up and having an affair. IT just doesnt.

So, its up to you to be strong and confident, Dont KISS her a$$ as she will know. Be the best you that you can be. Be polite , and aware but dont persue. She will run, believe me, this is such a broken record in my sitch that it is almost comical now if the stakes werent so high.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11