You don't know that. What you do know is that he's not doing it your way, on your timeline.
What I do know is evident by his behaviour. He isn't getting help with his stuff his way , let alone mine. He's said as much. Other things take priority, those things convienent excuses. IOW, he doesn't want to.
As to timeline, I"ll admit I'm not prepared or willing to wait multiple years for him. IF he comes back at all. My kids won't wait either. They keep growing daily and further and further away from him too.
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Do you really believe that?
If love is a concious decision and choice and is supported by loving acts... he's chosen and choosing daily not to love. As painful as that realization is to me, I have to $uck it up, and accept it. You can't make someone love you if they don't.
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Are you saying that you intend to give the kids a laundry list of reasons why?
No.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
