Thanks for all of the resources. I think the reality of the damage his childhood has caused is really starting to sink in. I feel that he is wanting me to pay the price of the indiscretions of his mother. I feel he actually can't separate the two of us sometimes. I don't think there is much I can do to help him other than going dark for awhile and trying not to cause problems. I will just try to absorb as much as I can and try to find peace. I just love him so and want to help him. I am afraid of what will happen to him if I am not in his life.
