Crush--(I love Finding Nemo, btw)-- I thought I'd love to hear those words, too. And I did, the first two or three times I heard them. They were always followed by a brief period of decent behavior, then right back to the same old same old.
Now I just take them for what they are worth. Actions do speak louder than words and in this case my H hasn't made a lot of movement. Not that it would matter to me anymore, but I'd love to see him healthy for his kids.
Actions, True. Wait for real actions.
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.