Positively moving forward

[awest1217]

NOthing new going on. As normal, H isn't sending back his proposal for the D settlement so it is now over a month waiting for his response, and if it is exactly what we discuss, I wll sign it and this could be over...but once again waiting. I did let H know that the longer I have to wait the more upset I get and the harder it is for me to be cordial to him.

Financially, my tax refund, which was small because I could have filed head of house and gotten a ton more, is gone because I have to takea class this summer to renew my teaching license (I am actually looking forward to it because it is a class I really want to take) and I am going to put new tires on my car. I haven't put new ones on since buying the car and the tread is practically gone. I did get a good deal on the tires, but they are still about $100 more than I was hoping to spend. They are really good tires with no one having a bad review and I read almost 100. They are middle of the line tires for my car and I did get them at a lower price than advertised so it is all good. I am just going to try to not spend a lot and save. I did figure out that if all goes as it has been, I may be able to refinance the house next summer or the summer of 2013. 2013 I will be just over what I need to be at to refinance so hopefully I can put a little extra down in the next two years and I will refinance in half the time I have allotted from H so that makes me feel good.

HOnestly there are no worries.

With S, he was sick all last week. H stayed home with him one day and I was home 3. He was better for one, but relapsed so I was rushing around Friday morning to get things ready for work. He started acting sick again at the end of the week so I am a little concerned because his tubes have fallen outa nd I am worried he will need more surgery, but trying to think positive.

All is really good here and hopefully it will just continue.