Why is it that all the experts say we cannot confront those in MLC? What are we supposed to do then?
Confronting a MLCer is just opening a can of worms that you really don't want to open.
Often, there will be many nasty things spoken, and words that you do not want to hear.
It is possible that they could become so angry that they choose to move forward with D or other actions before they are really ready.
We are supposed to detatch, establish boundaries and actions that stop the spew and negative treatment of us. Like, walking away from an argument instead of participating.
We are supposed to look within, and learn how to make ourselves happy, regardless of what the MLCer is doing.
The ultimate goal, is to outlast the MLC.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
