This recent exchange shows me W is reflecting but still sees herself as a victim of circumstance, other people's judgment, and just plain some bad people in her life.
She wishes she didn't do the things she did but is still not ready to atone for it.
Easier to run away and say she isn't worthy of our M.
I think she expects me, wants me, to give her the easy out and divorce her.
She ain't gettin off that easy.
It costs me nothing to stand here right now.
It is her time to do the heavy lifting and the work.
She will or she won't but she isn't getting the hall pass from me.
Not right now.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am