Lookin' Back

[Denver_2010]

I'm pretty proud of my W obviously... I just wish that that song didn't have to be about how sad she was in our M. Thanks for the compliments everyone.

UPDATE...

I haven't posted one for a while. There really isn't a lot that has changed. My W and I have been hanging out nearly every night since we got back from Buffalo. She and SS will usually come over for dinner. We'll work on homework with SS, watch a movie, or just have a drink and talk.

I haven't asked about OM recently. Last thing that she has told me about him is that she was distancing herself from him. She certainly has not seen him in the past couple of weeks at least as she has been spending all of her free time with me. And on the nights that she's not with me, we've usually talked on the phone once or twice. There simply is no time for her to be spending with OM.

Tomorrow night she has a gig that I am going to with some friends. Saturday is SS bday party that I am helping her with so we will be hanging out all day.

So, saving the best bit of news for last, W brought up MC a few nights ago. I had previously told her that I was ready to do it if and when she was ready, but that I was willing to be patient. So on Monday night, W and I were out on my deck talking and she asked me about the MC that I had picked out. I asked her if I should make an appointment and she said 'yes'!

So... W and I have an our first MC session on Tuesday evening. It is with a solution based therapist who specializes in marriage counseling. I'm very excited.

I also spoke with W about Retrouvaille... she is more than willing to do it, but she has no free weekends in the next couple of months, so that may have to wait for a while.

Thanks everyone for the continued support!

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Denver