I've thought about this a lot over the years. I don't recall her asking. But I do recall the situation: making a tough decision to move from a different part of the country and start my career over again to be closer to family, having a home we signed on not get built, eventually finding a house, and trying to get settled in a new town, having two little guys. She didn't ask, but she needed me to lead his through this tough time. I did the hard work, and made it all work, but blew it in the calm, cool, and collected department. She needed a rock.
