Cadet who is awesome usually comes by and points out some of the better ones.
Thanks Jack, for the shout out, CandaianMrs above you have my welcome post and I am around from time to time, or ask some of the others questions. There are lots of smart people here.
Like I said above your H is giving you a gift. Start working on YOU and use the gift (of time) wisely.
Remember to have NO EXPECTATIONS.
This is a long hard journey and you can only take it one small step at a time.
