Welcome back Rae ... glad to hear your volunteering went well
Originally Posted By: Rae
There is a weird part of me, and it sounds so shallow, but I want to be the one to leave. I want to be the one to decide. Not him. Isn't that silly?
Silly? No. Safer? Yes. It's much easier on us emotionally to come to terms with being the one who walks away from something. We can justify and rationalize and walk away head held high and esteem (supposedly) in tact. But to be walked away from? To not be chosen? That's tough when we're vulnerable and unsure and walking around on shakey ground as it is ...
Keep diggin' Rae ... we're here ...
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc