Cant StandThis Roller Coaster

[MrBond]

Did you go out with her on SP day?

You're falling into the rut that many in DB get into once their spouse starts showing interest. Don't pull back too much or else she will think you really don't want her and she'll be ripe for someone else to go after.

Remember to invite her to a few things but just not everything. Of course, that's assuming you want to save your M.

[John170]

no i didn't ask her to go just me and my buddies were going. but i can tell she is waiting for me to ask her to do something. I told her she should of came and ate with me and our son after practice yesterday and she said u didn't ask.

[John170]

well found out she was in an emotional affair, but it ended cause he got locked up for meth and will prob get 20 years. they will never learn.

[John170]

and no before yall ask i had nutten to do with it. lol

[MrBond]

How did you find out?

[John170]

she told me when he got arrested and just said i was right.

[MrBond]

That is another huge step. She's apologized to you without you hounding her.

Now the question is, do you forgive her?

[John170]

she gonna have to get seriously checked then we may talk about it. im a cop no matter how much i love her there are things i just dont do im afraid she may have blown it.

[John170]

im a member of command staff for a major law enforcement agency. i have a reputation to up hold.

[John170]

ive changed no its her turn. yes i had an affair but it wasn't with a crack head she has a lot to prove.