h&h,
thank you for sharing your story. others will be around shortly to chime in.
I know this is hard on you and you will be OK.

You say he has not given up contact with OW and you are sexually active with him.
First thing you should do is protect yourself from any STDs.
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I am trying to rebuild my trust for him and he is still lying to me. I know that he just wants her to go away. He wants to forget this horrible thing he has done, but I am having trouble moving past the details. He does not want to tell me the details because he does not want to hurt me and he wants us to be able to move on. What should I do?


This is difficult when he is lying to you.
You need to set some boundaries for yourself when dealing with his lies.


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