She could have very easily addressed any problems, asked for what she needed, and watched as I took care of those issues.
Are you sure she didn't? In hindsight?
Right up until I was hit in the face with an EA...that was really a PA I'd later find out. I thought life was just dandy.
In hindsight, I was a selfish, cowardly and arrogant asss. I chose not to see or hear her warning signs.
And once she had built up a large enough wall against me she had no problem (and rightfully so) with realizing I wasn't going to change just because she asked me too. I didn't see the problem.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK