should I stay put?

[angel61]

This site has saved me too! And let me tell you, the urge to escape comes round a lot of times. I had to revisit that decision again and again. Two weeks ago I was literally clinging to my office chair to keep me from going home and just exploding at my H and giving up! Thank goodness many people here - Grace, Cyrena, to name a few.... talked me down.

But I don't want to be the one to leave - if my H does, its his decision, his work to do. I will stay put - for myself and for my daughter.

I have also decided (again) to stand for my marriage and do (or maybe rather, not do...!) everything to make it work/restore it.