H lost his job this past week. He had been planning on filing any day now and this obviously puts a halt on things as I don't see how he can "ask" for the things he wants (most namely the house which he has been adamant about getting) without having an income coming in.
He has talked to me briefly about his situation the past three days (more talk than in the last three months combined). I have been kind to him, told him I'm sure he would find something, etc. He actually send me an email after the first day thanking me for listening. The hostility in the house has definitely quieted. This is such a needed break from what we were going through. BTW, the OW was at his job. Also, H is a very PROUD person so this certainly is a blow to his ego. Should be interesting to see how this goes now...
I am still trying to employ the LRT while going through this and I don't want to be TOO supportive. After all, even though he may need me financially now, I don't want that to be the reason he is "talking" to me especially after treating me like absolute crap the past few months.
