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What is okay and not okay to talk about in couples therapy when DBing?


Sparks, while couple therapy requires openess and honesty, I'd refrain from mentions DB, or your ...tactics. I don't like that word, but it fits.

DB basics: No chasing, pushing, pleading or pursuing.

An idea for you:

Ask the thearpist to teach you both how to talk and listen to each other.

Mine had a great style, circular talking or some big brain pschyo babble name for it. : )

Put your money to work and your thrapist to work for you, have him/her teach you both something.


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