MLC = mid life crisis, and in society that means 40-50 something red convertable Corvette and banging the secretary. Its a stereotypical label, and its...wrong.
There are resources stuck at the top of this forum, good articles and posts, and Cadet who is awesome usually comes by and points out some of the better ones.
To me, it has always been 2 things that stick out for a 'Life Crisis'.
Are they confused? Do they say one thing and does that change? Do they keep you around, do they say things that confuse you?
The other:
A childhood issue that hit them hard, some big old stick you might as well label "That's F-ed up" beat them hard as a kid and they weren't able to process it as a child so they put it away.
The 'Life Crisis' come out when that childhood trauma comes out as an adult.
Read up on some of the others here, Mrs. Post to them and say hi, and they be around by the by and you'll build up your support group nicely. Less traffic here than in Newcomers...but its more in tune with MLC..ahem sorry 'Life Crisis'
Regardless of being in the same house or not...
YOU will survive his MLC. You will I promise. How you survive...well that is up to you. We want you to become better, stronger, and with the skill syou'll need to rebuild a relationship.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
