Everyone here would agree - if he wants to leave the marriage, he should be the one to leave, not you. Especially since you have the kids....think of how the instability would affect them!
Staying in the same house with the MLC'er is hard but for me if you can detach, and survive, go for it. That is what I am trying to do.
Read about MLC, then read the "MLC for Dummies" spoof .... I will see if I can find it and post it here.... its so funny but so true. The MLC'er wants to be the victim and one of the ways they can be one is when you leave ..... you become the bad guy and they are "poor me", have all the excuse in the world to hate you, to have an affair, multiple affairs ...
Watch out for the MLC for dummies topic I will post separately.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
