After help on this board, I really do think H is in MLC. He is only 35, I think that is why I first didn't label him as such. So much of it makes sense now. Anyway, on this rollercoaster, whenever the talk comes of D, its of the kids and I leaving our home. (Although I really doubt he would actually push for that.) At first I was angry and started thinking I should, but now I'm like; Why should I be the one to leave, disrupt our children's lives and look like the bad guy? Some days I think we could survive this, others I'm not sure. If we do separate, I'll leave when/if I decide for myself. He can go 1st. I'm wondering though, is it better to stay in the same house to survive MLC?
Me-36 H-37 D11 S8 S6 M9 T19 ILYNILWY 11/10 discover EA 02/11 discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11 H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11 Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12
