You are the only person that seems to be able to push my buttons but I want that to stop. I want to get to a stage where I will not respond with emotion; especially anger, and be calm.
Those are YOUR buttons, not hers. Therefore they are YOUR responsibility.
She can't push non-existent buttons.
Get rid of the buttons.
PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
