There are so many baiting comments in this note my head is spinning. Shall I point them out? Ok I will
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First, I was surprised to see the van in my driveway.
Seems like nothing right. IMO any time you start a letter like this you are dictating. When you dictate you take on a role of superiority. Again just my opinion.
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This should not happen
Why? I might be missing this 9 if I am sorry. Have you asked her not to come by? Can you clarify?
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I dont want to fight wiht you anymore ever again
Such a powerful word. Actions not words 9. That is what matters. Just don't.
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But I think you are mistaken by saying that this is no longer my business.
It is her brother right? I think you can say the same thing in two different ways and get two different responses. I get your point. Will she?
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I think we were both being immature about that
9 she will act immature at times because she thinks and acts out of emotions. You need to get passed that and think before you react. He who angers you controls you. Is she controlling you?
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I dont want to think or respond with emotion any more. Sometimes when i feel it rising to the surface, I want to disengage and resume when I am calmer. You are the only person that seems to be able to push my buttons but I want that to stop. I want to get to a stage where I will not respond with emotion; especially anger, and be calm.
Talk is cheap buddy. Let your actions be your voice.
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If you start throwing darts like " my house is disgusting etc.. I think its in OUR best interests to end the conversation as no good can come from that.
'I would appreciate it if we can both treat each other with respect and dignity. I apologize for escalating the situation and I am sorry it got out of hand'
