It's Time To Rock; Part II

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Denver.
I appreciate your perspective on things. I agree with with you that each of us knows our spouses the best.

I remember in my sitch where I posted that I was going to buy flowers for my W after we had our first date in over a year. Everyone told me it was more persuing. I trusted my gut on it and bought her flowers
She responded quite well, telling me she really needed that.

So I do understand where your coming from.

There isdifferent ways of going NC/ dark and dropping the rope.

If done in a respectful way it affective. That's what I'm preaching.

CS reads too much into his W's actions and he allows it to affect his mood. That's the rollercoaster ride people talk about.

Just when you think something's going your way the WAW changes direction.

We can't be affected by the WAW crappy behavior.
We need to remove ourselves from the situation and allow them to deal with their own feelings.
This is where validation is so effective.

Women want to be heard not fixed.

CS needs to continue to work on himself and GAL.
Learn about what attracts women and have self love.

If we can't love you we are then how can we expect someone else to love us?

"She isn’t expressing anger towards me, so what would the next logical progression be?"

After anger come forgiveness.

Men think logically, women are led by feelings and emotions.
gr8