"I stopped myself from convincing her it is worth it."
Bravo to you!! That is probably the hardest thing to do for any of us if we are put in this situation. But it's the right thing to do. Unless she comes to understanding on her own that it's worth it, she'll never meet you halfway. Good for you.
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying