Originally Posted By: LFW
the door was open, yet she was not going to pull him through it. The choice was his to enter or walk away


Thanks buddy. I think this is what I will do.

There was, for a moment, that old TG wanting to rescue but I quickly recognized it.

I even said to her when she said she couldn't be around my friends and family, that she didn't feel welcome, I said that is up to you, I can't help you with that.

I stopped myself from convincing her it is worth it.

I only spoke of my own feelings.

Let her own hers and work through them.

I think it is best for now for me just to listen.

Thanks all of you for your words.

I will keep you posted...

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am