I don't think so at all but if she does you are helping her get there with the anger and temper. You want to argue logics and common sense with someone who right now is thinking only with emotions. She opened up to you on Sunday A LOT you jumped in both feet first. Now she did a massive pull back and you are feeling the effects. You know the playbook 9 why are you refusing to follow it.
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I told her today that I am going beyond dark, I want to be invisible to her.
Again telling her what you are going to do. 9 you are reacting to everything she does and threaten what you will do. DB is not about doing to get something it’s about working on yourself taking a long hard look at yourself and killing those things that helped end your M. Right now what I see is a lot of anger on your part and some posturing. Look man I understand the frustration, I really do, you also have another layer which is OM but YOU have decided to go down this path for yourself so just do it.
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She said that she was only remembering unhappy times.
Until you become the better option that is what she will replay in her mind. Everytime you have an outburst or apply that pressure that is what she remembers.
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I hope so boys cause Im in a crappy place right now. Dont know why she gets so angry
I know you are in a crappy place 9 we all are man. Hang in there and ten years from will you be able to look back and say I did all I could do? Calm seas never made a skillful sailor. Ever heard that saying?
This is like the ultimate chess game only its not really a game. Live for you and the kids. Enjoy them and enjoy life and you will see some serious response from her. Do these things for you. Remove her from your thought and take it one day at time. It is hard and it is long but we are here for you now and always.
A man who is master of himself can end a sorrow as easily as he can invent a pleasure. I don't want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them
