MLC Purgatory

[peacetoday]

Meganna

Many of these MLCers are not very good parents.
and I understand how frustrating it can be

We cant teach them how to parent and they will get furious if we suggest
so I needed to come to some kind of acceptance during that transitional phase when XH moved out and began picking up kids for outings at the arcades and ice cream or sitting in front of TV ect

It wasnt easy but if you could use the time and just continue to take care of yourself
as long as the kids are safe, I would let it go
I practiced Thanking XH when he took the kids and although it seems very fake at that time I tried to create a friendly environment for all of us, as XH transitioned out into his new life
I am grateful I did and have no regrets..I learned more than at any other time of my life and I look back to that time as a blessing

You are doing all the right things and at the end of this journey, you will reap many benefits as many of us did..
just keep going and work on you
trust even though you cant see it now

I know this is not what you want,but the suggestions here on this board will and do work when we use them
Our M may not be restored but this program will get US thru this and we will gain everything from it
Peace