H returned my call late yesterday afternoon. He confirmed he plans on attending today. I chose not to bring up more of the topic as he was driving. H did tell me to take more rent money the company owes us come April 1st. I will let you all know of any further discussions.
I am going to keep thinking on your words. I am going to believe that you all are right in that H will not find the happiness AND support, sympathy and acceptance he does seek with the OW. I know his needs and my love for him has always been unconditional, unfortunately for him the life with the OW he currently has is loaded up with conditions. I feel very sorry for him, but as you all remind me....this is his to discover. I have done all I can.
Your words have given me lift this morning. I can't thank you all enough for being here for me.
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11